Hi, I'm Simona. Coach at the Center for Remothering and founder of reMothering.org.
Daughter-healing has been my life's work. For too long, to the best of my ability, I tried to be the daughter my mother needed me to be so she wouldn't be criticized by her mother. Though dysfunctional, and not a path I would recommend, that dynamic offered many hard-earned life learnings that are the reason I am good at what I do in my work as a transformational coach specializing in the remothering journey.
I stumbled upon the trailhead of my remothering journey in December 2002, when I was 2-weeks pregnant with my daughter. It wasn't one of those graceful, wise, intentional decisions; it was life unfolding in a way that I could no longer ignore what was hiding in plain sight. At that time, I was so deeply programmed to be a 'good' daughter and play a role in my mother's story, that I had lost part of my connection to my essential self. And without a map, or even language to describe what I now call the REMOTHERING JOURNEY, it felt like I spent a lot of time stumbling my way forward.
My zig-zag path has taken me from 'good daughter' (fixer, achievement-for-love, reflexive caretaking, over-explaining, and more) to relief and breaking free from outdated programming that was hiding in plain site.
Having traveled a more arduous (and a lot messier!) route to come home to myself than I would have preferred, I think of the work I do as putting up trail markers to ease the path for the next travelers. Which brings us to this moment. There is now language for the journey: remothering. And there are resources: here at the Center for Remothering & over reMothering.org.
I am a transformational coach specializing in the remothering journey, and if it feels aligned, I'd love to encourage you to explore coaching with me.
wishing you all the best on your remothering journey,
Welcome to the Center for Remothering, private coaching practice of Simona Vivi H, globally recognized remothering expert.
Come on in if you are seeking RELIEF, healthier personal boundaries (even with boundary-impaired others), a self-kinder mind, and/or greater self-alignment.
If you, or someone you know, may be curious to trade in the 'don't be selfish' conditioning, shed the weight of crushing guilt, and transform the mental sparing we often have with ourselves in our own heads instead of with our mothers - in exchange for greater ease, clarity, and self-kindness - let's connect.
New clients welcome.
Hello and thank you for your curiosity about remothering & about me, Simona Vivi H. I am available for interviews and collaborations on the following topics: remothering, self-kinder mind, and personal boundaries.
If you would like to connect, reach out to:
Support [at] CenterForRemothering [dot] com
Globally recognized remothering expert, Simona Vivi H, is a transformational life coach specializing in guiding adult daughters towards healthy boundaries, self-kinder minds, reduced mental chatter, and the transformative remothering journey.
Simona guides her clients from unrealistic societal expectations and conditioned ‘good daughter' roles (fixer, achiever, reflexive caretaker, people-pleaser, perfectionist, etc) to find RELIEF, establish healthier boundaries, break free from outdated programming, and thrive forward in self-alignment.
Shed the adaptations, keep the hard-earned wisdom. Connect with Simona online at CenterForRemothering.com, reMothering.org, and on Instagram @the.remothering.coach